When you sit and take into account all the stressors in your life, you can feel them pile up. Naming thing after person after thing. You question why life is stressing you out, when you know and feel and see that Life is improving.
The life that you want is hurdling towards you, to meet you where you are. Although, to fully be in presence of this energy, you need to step through to a new frequency. You have to leave all the stressors behind. Leave them all behind. This means that you don’t have to solve everyone’s problems or look for your next step in life.
It means that you get to cry and treat yourself with your favourite tea, as you regain connection to your nervous system. As you ground down, you spiral into surrender. Leaving the stressors in this path, as you climb to your next path. It feels like a rollercoaster, and once you start to recognize the pattern, then you know you’re just along for the ride.
However, if you know about the ride, it still sucks. You feel stuck. You are stressed. Life feels unbearable. Breathing never felt harder. Then, Life gets easier. You recognize the patterns and have the tools to pull you out of a sinking frequency. You have the support system. You have the little daily joys to keep you moving, and growing.
Growing is so damn hard. Even when you think you understand how to grow, there will still be moments that push your boundaries. There will be moments when you collide with yourself, bursting into flames and star dust - over and over and over again.
Growing feels like the world’s end, but really you just reached the edge of the ocean to find the land that you were looking for. The land has all the resources you have been asking for, including the support and freedom that you needed to step towards your dreams. It’s time to explore this new land, and grow with it as you receive all that you need to.
Growing is so damn hard. It’s a full-time job. It takes commitment, dedication, discipline, compassion, grace, open mind, body connection, Soul connection, dreaming big, and the joy of your inner child to keep growing through life. It’s hard, it’s tough, it’s annoying at times, but growth is one of the most beautiful processes that a human can experience. It’s a processes that takes the ashes of your current situation to birth the rising phoenix of the next situation. Growth asks us only to do what we can handle, while standing at the edge of the cliff. Growth pushes our boundaries in order to see us fly. Growth always happens in our best interest.
I wish you nothing but Love and Growth this year.
Thanks for being here,
D
Sometimes I feel like pulling my higher self's hair and throwing her across the room! And other times I feel like hugging the fuck out of her because of unconditional love lol! We have a weird relationship 😂😂
I felt this so much Danielle💗 growing is super hard and feels completely like a full time job. I’m in a very interesting transition right now and finally embracing the new person I’m becoming. It felt exhilarating for a few days but now it just feels confusing. Talking to new people, realising you belong in different groups now, in a different city… pff what a life